Homelessness Can Begin in the Home

April 1, 2014

For the upcoming event titled “Finding Home,” the panelists were given this question in advance, “What do you feel are the main causes of homelessness in our community?” When working with people who are struggling to find adequate shelter, I like to always conduct a quick personal interview to learn more about their unique situation. Nearly every time the person’s experience has included a form of abuse beginning in the home where they grew up. Even before I was a parent, I understood that the first four years of a human life have the strongest effect on how a person develops later in life. If that period of time is full of unstable behavior (like binge drinking, verbal arguments, physical abuse of anyone in the family), the home is an unsafe place. Most likely that person is going to grow up with more psychological baggage to overcome than other people. I don’t mean to oversimplify the reasons behind homelessness to say it is one particular thing. My intention is actually the opposite. This issue is more complicated than many people think.


At the Eugene Safe Spot, 12 out of 15 people smoke cigarettes. Big deal, right? Cigarettes are a common stress reduction mechanism that is, in many circles, a socially acceptable practice. During a meeting at the camp, I was curious about when people began smoking. One of the residents who I really depend on as a camp supervisor said he had his first cigarette when he was five years old. At that time he wasn’t homeless, and you might be thinking, “What does smoking cigarettes have to do with being homeless?”


In my opinion, smoking cigarettes is irresponsible behavior. It’s a sign of weakness, not of strength or coolness, as it was portrayed in our society for decades. The fact that we allow messages to be transmitted through advertising that encourage irresponsible behavior is an example of the main point I am trying to make: our society is irresponsible because activities that weaken people are encouraged and promoted. These messages are brought into the home and perpetuate damaging behaviors (smoking is just one of many examples) that sometimes lead to people finding themselves without a stable home. So, homelessness, in my opinion, is a symptom of a much larger disease…it is not the disease.


I believe that hyper-focusing on the issue of homelessness sort of distracts us from finding solutions to more fundamental problems. Getting people into homes is only part of the solution, especially if there is not a responsible community around an individual to help shift destructive behaviors that will send the person back into a ”hole.“ That challenge is made more difficult with all the corporate drug stores (just think of any mini-mart) readily available on every stinking corner in the city, providing easy access to legal drugs of choice. How are people supposed to really kick any addiction? There is a couple of young campers at the Safe Spot, one of them is pregnant and her partner is commonly sick. During a meeting, she was munching on a package of Skittle candy and talking about how often they hang around Voodoo Doughnuts in downtown Eugene.


Do I have to explain why this is irresponsible behavior?


I am not saying that these actions alone cause homelessness. I am saying that these behaviors, and many others, are irresponsible and weakening to human health and happiness. I am saying that corporate greed is part of this problem because these behaviors are encouraged to feed profits. When somebody comes to me preaching how corporations are ruining the world smoking a cigarette, I will never take it seriously. I will spare you my rant on how much cheap beer is sold everyday in our community.


Overall, our whole community is in need of some deep healing. It’s not just those struggling with adequate shelter. It’s many other people who have shelter as well. I live next to a gob of low-income housing apartments. The disease, of which homelessness is a symptom, is inside many of those homes as well, but within those walls it’s just harder to see.


Some people believe that solving the problem of homelessness is as simple as putting people in houses (like the housing first model). Housing, or legal shelter is, of course, very important to helping somebody back on his or her feet. Though, we have larger work ahead of us if our end goal is to strengthen our communities. This work includes putting the health of the entire community before our own individual comforts or desires, experimenting with new creative ways to create paying jobs for people, coming up with a truly sustainable American standard of living, making things happen as citizens and not waiting for the great machine of the government to be the change that we want to see in this world, cracking down on manipulative advertising that influences bad behavior, learning again how to be an upright people. No it’s not just putting people in housing…it’s actually changing things for the better and we got a lot of work ahead of us.

News & Events

To stay connected to CSS, subscribe to our quarterly newsletter. If you are a member of the media who is seeking info, contact community@cssoregon.org.

Subscribe to Newsletter
October 31, 2025
As we move deeper into fall and prepare for the cold months ahead, we want to share an update on our work and a reflection on what this season means for our community. Recent policy changes and funding reductions across Oregon are already having consequences for people experiencing homelessness. New SNAP rules are e
October 30, 2025
Since the inception of the CSS workforce development program in 2024, it has become clear that not everyone is interested or able to work in a traditional workplace. It can be quite the challenge to locate jobs that are part time, supportive, accessible to folks with disabilities or criminal history, to name but a few
October 29, 2025
When someone moves, they may receive housewarming gifts to celebrate their new beginning, which can help a new house or apartment start to feel like a real home. Each person who moves into a Conestoga Hut receives something akin to a "Hut-warming" gift. “A welcome tote is given to new clients when they move into a Hu
October 27, 2025
Linda Southwood’s handmade jewelry, she said, is a part of her. Making her beaded bracelets and necklaces from reclaimed wood has been a relaxing constant for Southwood, 52, especially after her home burned down three years ago and she struggled to find housing. She’s a graduate of a new arts entrepreneurship progra
July 26, 2025
Because of your support, we’re growing into something bigger—two new spaces designed to better serve our unhoused neighbors. Community Supported Shelters is in the middle of an exciting transformation. After over a decade at our Grant Street location, we’ve purchased a new building that will allow us to bring our in
July 25, 2025
“Everyone will have desks,” declares Blake Burrell, CSS Director of Community Impact, anticipating the move of most of the CSS staff and programs from 1160 Grant Street to 2870 West 10th Place, a former Oregon Department of Motor Vehicles facility. The move will take place between now and the end of 2025.
July 24, 2025
Erik de Buhr fell in love with the building at 1160 Grant long before there was a Community Supported Shelters. He was involved with a group that built things out of salvaged materials (Resurrected Refuse Action Team), including huts that would turn out to be precursors to the CSS Conestoga Huts. “I’d been eyeballing t
July 23, 2025
In partnership with the Nightingale Board of Directors and the City of Eugene, CSS is ensuring the Nightingale Safe Spot continues to operate in South Eugene. In the month of July, CSS officially began to operate the Nightingale Safe Spot Community in South Eugene. As the organization moves its home to our new building
July 22, 2025
The Eugene REALTORS® Young Professionals Network had their yearly ‘Sip of Summer’ event to raise money for Community Supported Shelters. A good time was had by all with games, a raffle, BBQ, and great networking at Alton Baker Park. This was their 5th fundraiser for CSS, and they raised $3,300 this year to Adopt-a-Hut.
July 21, 2025
This summer, we've been collaborating with UO Duck Corps, who have been giving Hut exteriors some good scrubbing. Dustin (the staff member taking the selfie), says, "It's so encouraging to see a younger generation work against stereotypes about the unhoused and have such an interest in helping their community."
Show More